Which Best Describes You?

Which Best Describes You?

Some of you may call it a girlfriend and other may call it a booty call. But nothing compares to having a girl by your side at all times when you need her. So I figured, sharing a little something I learned about girls might help some of you guys out there. Basically, if neither one of these descriptions does not portray you, you might want to pay closer attention to what this blog has to offer.

Girls seem to date guys who treat them well. When a guy treats a girl right, it seems to make the girl feel important. I have a friend who’s neither attractive nor witty. One day he put his charm to the test by approaching a girl who he had been eying for quite a while. I seriously thought he was going to get shut down for sure. He talked to her very kindly and was very sweet to her. He would always do things like hold the door for her and let her go first. A few weeks passed and they were spending a lot of time together. He then asked her out on a date and currently they are going out. This is just one of the many examples where “a respectful man took home the cheese”. Another example of this is my own mother and father. In college, my father was a rather goofy looking dude, with his thick moustache and coke bottle glasses (somewhat like a Halloween disguise). On the other hand, my mother had the popularity and looks to go with it. All the guys wanted to be with her. Ironically these two are my parents. One day, my father stumbled into the class late apologizing to the professor. He sat next to my mom and acted very kind toward her. He helped her with her work and they eventually became study buddies. They soon started dating, as my father was still very sweet to her. They currently have been married for 38 years and they are still in love. When guys treat girls with respect and kindness, they tend to prevail.

Girls also date guys who they find interesting. Some may date someone who they find intelligent. My brother was a very gifted student when he was attending college. He excelled in all of his classes, especially chemistry. A girl in his class was not very knowledgeable on the topic, nor was she interested. She actually had her interest directed towards my brother who seemed to have all the answers. When he would talk in class, she could not help but laugh at every witty joke he would dictate to the class. She was wondering to herself, “Who is this kid?” She approached him after class within the first week of school. She actually asked him on a date! Although they are now broken up, they did date for roughly 8 months. At first some of her friends were jealous. This just proves that girls pursue guys they find interesting. Another example is James Carville and his wife Mary Madelyn. They both have careers in politics, although Madelyn is a republican and Carville is a democrat. Although they can never agree on any political issues, they still find each other’s points interesting. She especially finds his points interesting. She is also interested in his intelligence outside of politics. An interesting partner only means an interesting relationship.

Women also like it when a common interest is shared, Simply because it’s easier to maintain a conversation. Another reason that bonded my parents even more was when they found out they were both architecture majors. They started their study group because they were both in the same major. Because they are married and both architects they now own their own business together and get along great. I had always heard that it was bad to mix business and pleasure but I guess that this is incorrect. Another example is John Lennon and Yoko. Yoko was attracted to John Lennon’s ideas and principles. They agreed on many certain issues and were both rebels. She found his music interesting and he found her art interesting. They both had professions relating to self expression. However both of their morals and principles were very much alike. Their political views were the same and their beliefs were very strong. They were quite active in making statements that influenced young teenagers all around the world. People can bond in other certain situations as well. People who drink socially are a perfect example of people with common interests. I know of many couples that had met at a random party. It is mainly social drinkers that meet guys or girls at parties. I actually met my last girlfriend at a party. I was just walking in and I realized that I dropped my 5 dollar entrance fee. I told the guy at the door I couldn’t find it and he told me to leave. The girl behind me handed me five dollars and told me not worry about it. We started talking and we didn’t stop until public safety came. I walked her back to her dorm and I got her number. It’s been three weeks now since we started dating and we feel very comfortable with one another.

Girls date guys for a lot of reasons, but you mostly just need to be nice and find the right girl. Anyone who is having lady problems should seek a girl who he finds interesting. Chances are that she will find you interesting as well.